Good Grief

With many people dying from the Corona virus, how can we grieve well?

These are difficult times to be grieving; particularly with the requirement to distance ourselves from one another, and the reduced numbers who can attend funerals. From St Francis Church, our two clergy; Jean (01722 334214), and Matt (07816 386623) are available should you want someone to speak to.

There is also very helpful information on the following website which specialises in supporting people in grief and has practical information on the logistics of funerals: https://www.cruse.org.uk/get-help/coronavirus-dealing-bereavement-and-grief

Prayers for yourself or others in a time of loss: “Good Grief Prayers”

Below we have included a link to some “Good Grief Prayers.” These are prayers especially for these days that could help you if you:

  • can’t go to a funeral of a loved one
  • In the days leading up to a funeral
  • For others who are grieving
  • Wisdom to know how to put our love into action

Resources from the Bible Society
The Bible Society has a wealth of compassionate, biblical resources on their website. If you would haven’t every really thought about the journey of grief that the death of a loved one brings, they have some great resources which you can find here.

A reflection from Jean de Garis
“In my last parish I had the privilege of knowing a very wise, elderly, christian. His name was Sir Tom Lees. 50 years earlier he had founded one of the first charismatic christian communities in this country with his wife Faith. It was called “The Post Green Community”. Many hundreds of people came to faith or grew in faith through their extraordinary ministry. As Tom was aging and thinking about his own death, he preached one Sunday morning about how he viewed his own death as a follower of Jesus. 5 years later Tom died, and we included his own sermon as part of our thanksgiving to God for his extraordinary life – a life lived very closely to Jesus. I hope that you find comfort, perspective, wisdom and faith in his words which you can find below.”